"Number-one New York Times bestselling author Lysa TerKeurst helps readers stop the dysfunction of unhealthy relationships by showing them biblical ways to set boundaries--and, when necessary, say goodbye--without losing the best of who they are"--. Provided by publisher.

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Introduction: we can't set good boundaries without love -- Chapter 1: You are not crazy (you can love them, but you can't change them) -- Chapter 2: Naming the tension that we've all been wrestling with -- Chapter 3: It's not about the problems, it's about what the problems represent -- Chapter 4: God takes boundary violations very seriously and so should we -- Chapter 5: You are already doing this really well -- Chapter 6: They may never see your boundaries as a good thing -- Chapter 7: Just because they say it doesn't mean you have to own it -- Chapter 8: Trying to make someone else happy shouldn't be your definition of healthy -- Chapter 9: What am I so afraid of? -- Chapter 10: Can a goodbye ever really be good? -- Chapter 11: I'm not walking away, I'm accepting reality -- Conclusion: a Bible, a ring, and a God who never leaves us -- Wisdom to turn to when our boundaries are called into question -- Getting the help you need -- Some important notes to consider on abuse. -- Acknowledgments -- Notes -- About the author.